Indian Boys

Being a girl myself its really difficult to write about boys, their gleanings or their disposition. I think not only girls but boys themselves can't understand themselves. They themselves seem confused about their relationships, friends , family, jobs and everything in their lives.

In the typical as well as modern families in India still today the birth of a boy is considered to be a good omen and a blessing from the divine. They are grown up like prince of the kingdom which is definitely an illusion but throughout their lives they cherish a kingly feeling.

They are cute when they are born, family's boy till 10, mama's boy till teens, friends boy till adulthood, girlfriends boy till marriage and ultimately become a joru ka gulam after that. (guys, no offence on this).

They are taught to be dominating and being angry all the time, ofcourse getting inspired from their dads. (no offence on this too..) Even though, India is developing, educating but still it continues to be a male chauvinist economy.

                

When they are kids, they fantasise remote cars, teen boys want high speed bikes and limosines. Adult guys want the sexiest girlfriend in town. Flaunting money and royalties among friends belong to their basic characteristics. Any household work done by men is looked down in the Indian society. It is obvious in India that girls are bound to do the household work, no matter they are doing jobs or their level of tiredness.

Undoubtedly, their is an indubitable part too which belong to their persona. Super attached to grand parents, Emotional for their parents, Loving for their friends, Caring for their wives, Protective for their sisters and determined towards work. Even though  they do have a superiority complex with women but still women's are most respected in India. They may belong to their wives after marriage but taking care of parents when they become old is something which they are best at.

Nobody can ever be perfect in this world and so will be Indian men. But I wish Indian men to co operate a little and also give their better halves and sisters as well a chance to grow in their careers. A little change from your side may take India from a developing country to developed economy.

Feeling expressed above were just mine and can be wrong. Apologize if you are hurt. Do express your views too...